Posts in Self Improvement
How To Deal With Self Criticism as a Writer

“Say whatever you want, research it properly, and write fast. Never look back. If you interrupt the writing of fast narrative with too much introspection and self-criticism you will be lucky if you write 500 words a day and you will be disgusted with them into the bargain.”

  • Ian Flemming

We've all had days where we wanted to write, but we find ourselves disgusted with our words. They call this "Imposter syndrome."

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International Men's Day

Today is International Men’s Day but you wouldn’t know it by checking the mainstream male websites. GQ is bashing America and selling fashionable facemasks. Esquire is silent on IMD too. Though I’ll give them credit, they have a pretty good piece about the James Bond film, Goldeneye. AskMen is trying to sell you more junk you don’t need.

The lack of good manliness websites is why I created Path To Manliness.

How Did International Men’s Day Start?

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Is There Anything Wrong With Watching Sportsball?

Is there anything wrong with spending your time watching sportsball? Walk into a bar on any given Sunday and you’ll hear grown men shouting obscenities at professional athletes on big screen television. These manchildren, donning jerseys over their beer bellies will be ordering fried chicken wings while claiming that these athletes are lazy for not hustling more or are weak for not playing with a broken finger. Onions are still vegetables when fried right??

What is Sportsball?

Sportsball is a…

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The Life Changing Habit You Need to Start Today

“Writing is magic, as much the water of life as any other creative art. The water is free. So drink.”

- Steven King, On Writing

Writing saved my life. The powerful, yet simple habit has helped me get my life in order, network with like-minded people online and even inspire others online. To learn more about the writing process, I just finished reading On Writing by Steven King, which I highly recommend to all writers.

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Why Are Other People More Successful

It’s easy to walk into a gym and look at all the guys who are jacked and throwing giant weights up like they’re He-Man Master of the Gymnasium! But what you don’t see is how they started 10 years ago and had a baggy t-shirt on over a slender frame. It took dedication and effort to reach 1980s action figure levels of gainz.

You see others online starting their own business, e-commerce shop or other entrepreneurial venture. Since these people only show you the success, you get frustrated when your first idea doesn’t take off.

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How To Escape the Quarter Life Crisis

One of the biggest shocks to a man’s life is going from the fast-paced college life to the slower career life. Overnight you lose most of the close friends that you lived with, drank with and bonded with. It can even be depressing to see your youthful, energetic and optimistic classmates replaced with older, overweight and dull coworkers. This often leads to what is called, “A Quarter Life Crisis.”

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If you wake up at a different time, in a different place, could you wake up as a different person?
In Fight Club, Jack (the Narrator) is mindlessly drifting from place to place via airports.

As he’s wondering through wherever, he ponders this question, “If you wake up at a different time, in a different place, could you wake up as a different person?” There will be Fight Club spoilers in this post btw. Aside from having a complete mental breakdown and starting a cult of space monkeys, could you have a fresh new start by moving to a different place?

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Do Young Men Need Direction in Their Lives?

Men Are Searching For Direction

Young men feel lost and rudderless in modern life. They’re stuck pursuing a safe life they are supposed to live rather than the life they truly want. And everything from school to parents to the media tell them to sacrifice their own fulfillment for the safe route. These men are then left to fend for themselves even if they find themselves disillusioned, depressed or angry.

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